Non-Fiction Books

The Going and Goodbye is an examination of loss and leaving and the search for meaning in the memories that remain. Tracing a path through rural Ohio, the American south and small towns of Mexico, these stories breathe life into a marriage and its dissolution; find a voice that fears mortality then faces it; explore faith in the face of these losses; and ultimately reveal the power of love and letting go.

If you’ve ever wanted to go back in time and talk to your younger self—to give advice, to say what you wish you had known then that you know now, to promise that even when it gets bad, it will get better—then this book is for you. If you are still young enough that most of life’s lessons stretch ahead in front of you, then save yourself a heap of trouble and read what’s on these pages. “This book is a must-have for readers who wish to garner the wisdom of a gifted writer who has lived it and learned a lot about life’s journey along the way.” —Dayton Daily News, “Vick’s picks for books that could make great gifts this year,” 11/25/2018“Shuly Xóchitl Cawood opens her new book light-heartedly: with good advice on bangs. It’s not all fun and games though: she also counsels her younger self on more serious topics— love and faith and health and remembering that patience is sometimes required.” —Courtney LeBlanc, author of The Violence Within “Here are three more things to tell yourself at any age: 1. This book belongs in the hands of everyone turning 17—or even 57! You won’t find a better birthday gift. 2. Even if you don’t read it until you’re 57, it will still bring you tears, solace, and wisdom. 3. Here is a writer to follow closely: the beauty, delight and humor that emanates from her work will stay with you for a very long time.” —Carla Sameth, author of One Day on the Gold Line: A Memoir